Friends, we have been invited here today to share with (Groom)and (Bride) a most important moment in their lives. In the time they have been together their love and understanding of each other has
grown and matured. Now they have decided to live their lives together as husband and wife.
Please be seated.
(Groom) and (Bride), nothing is easier than saying words and nothing harder than living them day after day. What you promise today must be renewed and redecided tomorrow.
At the end of this ceremony, legally you will be man and wife, but you still must decide each day that stretches out before you, that you want to be married.
Real love is something beyond the warmth and glow, the excitement and romance of being deeply in love.
It is caring as much about the welfare and happiness of your marriage partner as about your own.
But real love is not total absorption in each other; it is looking outward in the same direction --together.
Love makes burdens lighter, because you divide them. It make joys more intense because you share them.
It makes you stronger so you can reach out and become involved with life in ways you dared not risk alone.
Who brings (Bride)to stand beside (Groom)? (Bride's parents stand and respond. [remain standing]).
Parents, are you willing, now and always to support and strengthen this marriage by upholding both
(Groom) and (Bride) with your love and concern? (Groom's parents stand and both sets of parents resond)
Then you may be seated.
Wedding Vows
(Groom), will you take (bride) to be your wife? Will you love and respect her? Will you be honest with her
always? Will you stand by her through whatever may come? Will you make whatever adjustments are necessary so that you can genuinely share your life with her? (Groom responds)
(Bride), will you take (groom) to be your husband? Will you be honest with him always? Will you stand by him through whatever may come? Will you make whatever adjustments are necessary so that you can genuinely share your life with him? (Bride responds)
Ring Vows
(Groom), what token do you give of the vows you have made?
(Groom responds): A ring. (Groom repeats his ring vows and places ring on bride's finger.)
(Bride), what token do you give of the vows you have made?
(Bride responds): A ring. (Bride repeats her ring vows and places ring on groom's finger.)
(Groom) and (Bride),we have heard you promise to share your lives in marriage.
We recognize and respect the covenant you have made. It is not a minister standing before you that makes your marriage real, but the honest and sincerity of what you have said and done here before your friends and relatives in the sight of God.
Pronouncement
Forasmuch as (Groom) and (Bride) have consented together in holy wedlock, and have witnessed the same before God and this company, by the authority committed unto me as an ordained minister and by the State of Colorado, I declare that ___________ and ___________ are now husband and wife, according to the ordinance of God and the law of the State of Colorado: in the name of the Father, and the Son and of the
Holy Spirit. Amen. Whom therefore God hath joined together, let no man put assunder.
You may now embrace and celebrate your union with your first kiss as husband and wife.
Now the ceremony is over and the experience of living day by day as married people is about to begin. Go forth to meet it, gladly, love life so it will love you. May blessings of God be with you.
Introduction
I now present to you Mr. and Mrs. ___________
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